Comments on: She Found Her Perfect Business

By: Roy Harrison

Roy Harrison — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 01:51:54 +0000

Thank you for an interesting story Fran. It was good to hear that you are on the road towards forefilling yourself . I am glad that the guidance Steve gave you brought the pieces together. It would seem from your observations that you are now on-track. My good wishes to you for your future and that it continues in the same vein.Roy

By: Dale

Dale — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:55:54 +0000

Fran,I feel you will succeed in whatever your mindset brings you. I have partnered with a business, that will remain nameless at this time. My thoughts have always been, if you own business, your on your own to learning trail and error. But with this team of people I have partnered with, I am finding that, I don’t have to do everything myself. There is always someone from this team I can call on for support. There are many fields to choose from, starting with health and nutrition, cosmetics(motives), car care, and many others. I have found through this business using a one to one approach, and by becoming a product of the product, broadens your approach to whatever comes into you conversation with people. I am learning to shut up and let everyone else talk, and by doing this I learn of how to answer the questions asked, and what to say. In a way one could say I am an information giver, and if your interested and want to learn more than I can direct you to my web portal to learn more. This is a great way of sharing every ones beliefs, my Thanks to Steve M. in advance. Dale.

By: Stephen

Stephen — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 23:17:21 +0000

Thanks Fran for the video. I am really glad to see someone “live their dream”. Good luck to you and everyone!!!!

By: Nanette

Nanette — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:07:21 +0000

Thanks, Fran and thanks, Steve. Looking forward to getting on this boat. Greetings from Germany, Nanette

By: Tyrone Turner

Tyrone Turner — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 00:51:03 +0000

Thanks, Fran & Steve. Steve, I learned more about business from you video blog than I’ve learned from countless workshops and books. THANK YOU.

By: Veronica

Veronica — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 14:28:55 +0000

Tabitha,First and utmost I wanna thank Steve and the Lady Fran on the Video because I do know that this blogs comments may mostly relate to that.But I also feel that it helps all of us connect. To a major ordeal, and that is “A Matter of Trust” No matter, People like I spoke of in my previous blog only do care about one thing and that is making their perfect business growth by taking money from you and I and anyone else they market.You hit their character, right on the head Tabitha. And you are right We should continue to grow regardless of the bad here or anywhere. There are always obstacles in our path and we do need to overcome them.Maybe my perfect business would be to gather all of these deadbeat, money hungry, people marketers, and knock them all out of the park. However we are given a certain thought process to overcome and even if we are skeptical to move on and up toward what we work hard for, we will receive our rewards in many different ways.You are also right on, when you mention the way we are compensated for our hard work differently that what we expect and should consider this a success yet only if it applies to our inner growth to maximize what we shall be, when we hit that perfect place . However the Internet is based on people marketing right now and to clarify that in my own mind where I can see that Steve is different from all the others is still at best” a chance”.What people marketer’s don’t you know, that offers your money back? They all do. Folks we have become a commodity in the World Wide Web all I am saying is be careful and become very skillful when you have your doubts about anyone or any thing. I may sound very skeptical and I may need some work on being so. Regardless it is a FACT.Maybe I should not go into the business online with my skepticism or maybe I just need to work on it.I was successful on my first website. However, I only began to come to these conclusions when I started studying marketing my 2nd product using the new and improved Attraction Marketing.One thing led to another and that is where I met up with People Marketers. Sure all you have to do is stay clear…it isn’t always so easy. The methods used in Marketing a product are the same they use to market people to that product.Which are the same tactics used in marketing people.Viral Marketing, Residual Marketing, Affiliate Marketing.. All the same thing? You bet!Is it so bad to want to believe someone at their word alone? Can we not just sell products and information without buying into people.or them trying to buy us?If someone really knows the answer to this I am all eyes

Hi Veronica

Thank you for your message.

I appreciate your perspective and have something for you to consider:

While I am sure there are people who intentionally deceive, I believe the majority of business builders, regardless of business model and market, intend to serve people in some way.

Within the relatively small group of ‘the deceptive’ there are indeed people with low or no integrity. It is however also easy to see how a person may get caught up in a deceptive practice without knowing it.

By in large though, I believe the vast majority of people intend to provide real products that provide value to real people.

As you may recall from the 11 Golden Rules article, people make 5 buying decision (in order) based on 6 buying motives whether they are buying a stick of gum or a new home. This is where the consumer can get hinself into trouble. If, for example, the buying motive is sourced by a subconscious need of some sort, then he can deceive himself. It may ‘show-up’ for that person as having been deceived by the merchant (a-la “a victim”). But in truth the deception was indeed his own.

As you will learn in ThePerfectBizFinder Program, our experiences are a reflection of our beliefs. But not our conscious beliefs. If, for whatever reason, I (subconsciously) believe I am to be deceived then my experience is ‘being deceived’. Because my beliefs form the lens through which I see, I can not distinguish real deception (which rarely happen) and self deceptions. So in this illustration what shows up for me is that the majority of merchant deceive…..which is clearly not the truth.

I am not ‘defending’ the unsavory practices of the deceptive merchant. I am however, also certain that the majority have the best possible intentions.

The good news is that within ThePerfectBizFinder Program you learn how to eliminate these deceptive and often limiting beliefs and create a clear field of vision for accomplishing what you want.

You might say this level of awareness about your own buying motives as well as your appreciation for the buying motives of your prospect is an interesting ‘by-product’ of ThePerfectBizFinder Program.

I look forward to helping you get what you want.

Sincerely,

Steve

By: Tabitha

Tabitha — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 07:18:50 +0000

Veronica, I think it’s wonderful that this blog and Steve’s gift of his expertise has helped you reagin faith in yourself and be willing to trust that there are people of integrity out there who really do want to help you find your potential and live your dreams. I’m about to start The Perfect BizFinder programme so can’t share any practical insights yet but I felt compelled to reply to your message because I’ve done a lot of “due diligence” with a lot of home businesses and online opportunities and I realised too that there are a lot of gimmicky, fly-by night programmes. Nevertheless, I don’t think anyone should ever allow this fact to make them disillusioned, distrustful, skeptical or lacking faith in The Good. We should look at all experiences as part of a learning curve. Youa re quite right that is improtant to get abck to basics before reaching for your definition of success- there is no real success without developing character and being willing to open yourself up to your full potential. People who fall for the gimmicky, fly-bu night stuff are usually people who just want a quick buck or are driven by a mentality of lack and a poverty consciousness. They don’t see The Good at all- they spend their time and energy complaining about unfair life is, how selfish wealthy, successful people are, how corrupt society is, how bad their situation is, what a bad deal they’ve been handed, etc.. My personal philosophy of life is “if you have enough time and energy to moan continuosuly, you have enough time and energy to do something about it”. When I started my first home business, I expected everything to be handed to me just because I had had such a rough life experience and I thought the world owed me something. I had an excellent product, state-of-the art system and an abundance of resources to get me going but I never got up and did anything with The Good I had received and the opportunity before me because I was too busy griping about all the hardships, obstacles, challenges and lack I perceived everywhere. Thank goodness I had the privilege of working with a wonderful mentor who told me to grow up and get a life. My second business failed because although I had cleared my limiting beliefs and thoughts, I could ot make the decision to become successful. I still felt undeserving of real sucess and this was partly because I had not defined success for myself clearly enough. I didn’t understand yet that the value of seting and reaching goals does not lie in the acheivement or reward at the end of the process but in what you become through the process. My second mentor taught me that “you should consider yourself successful even when you don’t reach a particular goal”. I then abandoned the idea of business altogether for a few years while I worked on just becoming the person I want to be and discovering my potential. I beleive The Perefct BizFinder system found me at this time because I am ready to take what I’ve learned from that process and apply it to my perfect business. I’m sharing all this with you in the hope that you will discover where you are on this path to your destiny and be encouraged to “keep moving, keep learning, keep growing” .

By: Veronica

Veronica — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 02:12:54 +0000

I have many opportunities presented to me and when I first started out. Just as soon as someone got wind that I was looking to start working at home online, People were coming out like vultures. These people then take you a step further, with their 30 second pitch, 60 second pitch and onward then offer to help you to start a Business (mind you , unlike Steve) they promise you to be a Success Story, Use OPM (other peoples money) OPM are your Credit Cards. When someone becomes enlightened with the fact that they can be a Success,then they have to change that mindset to I CAN be a Success. Because promises are broken and what is real brings you back down to earth. The sad part is until now no one showed me exactly how this all begins. How do we trust in a World that takes advantage of the unfortunate, to become a Success like with Real Estate. I would rather help a family stay in their home than make a couple hundred dollars (finder's fee) to provide a more fortunate, Investor to become wealthier. I want to trust in a drop shipper if I started another website to provide the quality of product they promise. Then to deliver on that promise.. These and many other forms of marketing people not products have given me and many others a false hope. So selling online should always be viewed as a Review first and foremost. Presenting false hope ,to me sometimes can shatter dreams. Where would we all be if we didn't dream? I can still take responsibility of my dreams and my goals. Why though do the Taker's always present you their guarantee of Success? After this past week and being here watching videos and reading comments and commenting myself I see know that everything does need a certain Order (if you will). The only way you can succeed in Business I believe is to start with a program like this. that have people that will review and find real feedback, from others to build on a reputation of helping to begin somewhere. Now I shall say what I really want. Not to worry about Success anymore, but to grow towards it. Then I believe I will reach my potential for the true meaning of My Perfect Biz then follow that with My Business. Then ultimately reaching Successful Satisfaction. Even though it has been sometime now since I saw through this People Marketing Method. There will always come a time in your Life when you have to get back to the basics. This past week shows me what I knew better Not to reach for the Success so soon just because someone says you can. Only to get back to the basics of your character your principles and you potential. Spread some integrity and the value principle (key tools that make sense, Steve). Unfortunately once again People that market People will say anything. most testimonials are the same used and reused this same ole story about how they were once like you. Steve Little, I believe is the exception to this because he Walks, a different Walk and Talks, a different Talk. Or is he just as good at marketing people too? Maybe for the better... I am leaning your way Steve. , Thankfully, I have not lost sight of the faith I place in myself. "Where will we all be in this World in the present, and in the future if we stop believing in others? Or in their word"? Thanks Steve... I will sign up

By: Can

Can — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 17:51:37 +0000

Thanks Fran for telling us how you feel are responding to people’s comments.

By: ray birky

ray birky — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 22:27:19 +0000

Steve and Fran thanks for sharing the video and all your advice. I took a step back and took a serious look at who I am , where I want to go, how I want to get there, my talent, my strengths, my weaknesses, my resources, and what is it I really want out of my internet business and how to do it. at the moment I am unable to buy your program and hope it is available just a little later down the road. I realized the business I originally planned to do and the other one I was thinking of doing may not be what I really want. This weekend I am going to seriously look at everything on a big poster board and put it on the wall so I can see where I am in the midst of all this. right now I have so much info it is almost overwhelming. So I need to settle down, look this thing right in the eye and say this is the direction I need to go. My study habits are not so good especially after your video and the 4 distractions. That can be fixed. I decided to start with one small bite and chew it really good before I swallow instead of trying to stuff the whole “elephant” in my mouth at once and walk around unable to see where I am going while choking cause I have this elephant in front of me. I am going to do one thing , do it well, and then move on from there. It may take me a little longer than some folks but really that does not matter. thank you steve and fran.